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Christmas Depression: Should I See A Therapist




The holiday season, often portrayed as a time of joy and celebration, can also bring up feelings of loneliness, stress, or depression for many of us. Christmas, in particular, might heighten these emotions due to various reasons like increased expectations, past experiences, financial pressures, or feelings of isolation. If you find yourself experiencing persistent sadness or heightened anxiety during this time, seeking therapy could be an invaluable step towards managing these holidays and your depression and / or anxiety.


Understanding Christmas Depression

For some, Christmas can serve as a reminder of lost loved ones, strained relationships, or unmet expectations. This emotional strain, combined with societal pressures to be merry and festive, can intensify feelings of sadness, worthiness and/or anxiety. Connecting Mental Health is here to support, give you the space to explore, learn more about and valid your emotions.


Signs and Symptoms of Christmas Depression


Recognising the signs and symptoms of Christmas depression is pivotal in addressing this type of holiday depression. Individuals experiencing these feelings during the festive season may exhibit various symptoms, varying in intensity and duration. Key indicators to be aware of include:


  • Persistent Sadness or Low Mood: This is more than just a fleeting feeling of unhappiness. Individuals may experience a deep, enduring sadness that persists throughout the holiday season.

  • Social Withdrawal: Those suffering from Christmas depression often find themselves pulling away from social engagements, even those that they might have previously enjoyed. This withdrawal is a protective response to their inner turmoil.

  • Increased Irritability: A marked increase in irritability, especially during the holidays, can indicate underlying emotional distress. This might manifest as a short temper, frustration over minor issues, or discontent.

  • Changes in Appetite and Sleep Patterns: Troubles in regular eating and sleeping habits can also signal Christmas depression. This might include loss of appetite or overeating, insomnia, or excessive sleeping.


It is essential to comprehend these signs to understand holiday depression. Recognising these signs in oneself or others can lead to more timely and effective support during what should be a joyous time of the year.


Coping Strategies for Christmas Depression


Battling the holiday blues can be challenging, but with the right strategies, it’s possible to find joy and contentment during the festive season. The following sections offer various techniques to help manage Christmas depression. From seeking support to creating new traditions, these strategies are designed to provide relief and foster a sense of well-being.


Seek Support

One of the most effective ways to combat Christmas depression is by reaching out for support. Opening and discussing your feelings with friends, family, or a therapist can offer relief and understanding. It's critical to keep in mind that seeking assistance is a showing of strength rather than weakness. Whether it’s sharing your concerns or simply enjoying the company of loved ones, the act of connecting with others can have a profoundly positive impact on your mood.



Self-Care during the Holidays


Self-care is vital during Christmas, especially for those experiencing the holiday blues. Here are some suggestions:


  • Relaxation and Meditation: Allocate time for activities that promote calmness and relaxation. Meditation can be particularly helpful in managing stress and anxiety.

  • Engaging with the outdoors: Research shows connecting with nature, water, sunlight and greenery relieves stress and increases dopamine and other pleasurable feelings.

  • Engaging in Hobbies and Activities: Spend time doing things you love, whether reading, painting, or listening to music. Engaging in recreation can provide a much-needed break from holiday stress.

  • Practising Mindfulness: Mindfulness involves being present at the moment and can help reduce feelings of depression and anxiety. Simple practices like mindful breathing or eating can be incorporated into daily routines.



Managing Expectations


The holiday season often brings high expectations, increasing stress and disappointment. Managing these expectations is key to enjoying a more relaxed holiday:


  • Setting Realistic Goals and Boundaries: Understand and accept your limits. It's okay not to do everything.

  • Prioritising Self-Care Over Perfectionism: Focus on what makes you feel good rather than striving for a perfect holiday.

  • Letting Go of Unrealistic Ideals: It’s alright if things don’t go as planned. Embrace the imperfections of the holiday season.


Creating New Traditions


Creating new, low-pressure holiday traditions can provide a fresh perspective and alleviate the stress associated with Christmas:


  • Volunteering or Giving Back to the Community: Helping others can provide a sense of purpose and joy.

  • Hosting a Low-Key Gathering: Consider a small, intimate gathering instead of a large party.

  • Embracing Simplicity: Sometimes, the simplest traditions can be the most rewarding.


Those experiencing Christmas depression can navigate the holiday season with greater ease and comfort by implementing these coping strategies. Remember, it's about finding what works best for you and embracing the holiday spirit in a way that nurtures your mental health.


The Role of Therapy


Therapy plays a significant role in combating Christmas depression. Therapeutic approaches like cognitive-behavioural therapy (CBT) or general counselling by Sydney therapists can provide profound benefits during the festive season. These therapies offer a structured environment where people can analyse the root causes of their depression and develop coping strategies. A professional's advice can support reshaping negative thought patterns and support managing emotional stressors often amplified during the holidays.


The Benefits of Therapy

Therapy offers a supportive environment where you can openly express your feelings and explore the root causes of your depression, anxiety and / or unmet needs, expectations. A therapist provides guidance and tools to cope with situational stressors, manage expectations, and further develop, highlight healthier coping mechanisms. Whether through cognitive-behavioural techniques (CBT), mindfulness practices (ACT), or interpersonal therapies like Gestalt, Cognitive Analytic Therapy, Psychodynamic and Schema Therapy, a therapist tailors the approach to suit your specific needs. All Connecting Mental Health therapists are trained in best practice, evidenced-based therapies and continue to up skill their practice. 



Breaking the Therapy Stigma

Acknowledging the need for therapy during the holiday season is an act of self-care, not a sign of weakness. Unfortunately, societal stigma often surrounds mental health, leading individuals to avoid seeking help. However, understanding that seeking therapy demonstrates strength and a commitment to one's well being can help break down these barriers. Connecting Mental Health applaud your courage for reaching out and taking the next steps in seeking best practice support / therapy.



Taking the First Step

Initiating therapy involves reaching out to Connecting Mental Health either through our initial 30mins assessment or booking a session with one of our best practice therapists online. We also recommend speaking with your GP to discuss other local options, accessing a Mental Health Care Plan, which enables 10 Medicare subsidised counselling sessions per calendar year.


Whether it's through in-person or online therapy sessions, or support groups, finding the right therapeutic approach is essential. Connecting Mental Health has a wide range of therapists to meet all your mental health needs. Book in now, we congratulate you on your courage reaching out.


Immediate Help


For immediate assistance, particularly for those thinking of harming themselves, the following helpline services are available:



Remember, prioritising mental health is crucial, especially during the holiday season. Seeking help and booking a session with a therapist and psychologist are signs of strength and important steps towards well-being.

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